
[my headband to embolden me when needed - which is always.]
“If you stopped yourself every time you said, ‘I have to...’
and changed it to ‘I get to...’
it might change your entire experience.”
- Deputy Kyle Pagerly
Some of you might remember that we lost a good friend this past summer. Kyle Pagerly was a 28-year-old Sheriff's Deputy who worked with a K-9; Kyle and his wife were expecting their first child. He was killed in the line of duty when a suspect they were after took cover in full camouflage and then open-fired with an AK47. There have been many tear-filled moments around here since June 29th, and lots of laughs, too, as we think about Pags and the memories we have of him. He lived his life with honor and integrity every single day, traits apparent from the moment we first met him.
Kyle's quote above exemplifies his attitude about living life: most everything we do is a choice. We decide; we opt; we select. Do you have to do something or do you get to do something? Think about it. Whichever way you judge something, it will inherently affect your attitude about it and how you engage yourself in it. More than that, freedoms and opportunities surround us b/c we are so fortunate in so many facets of our lives. Sometimes they are glorious and exciting; sometimes they are mundane and boring. Neither is less of a freedom than the other. And our attitudes about them can change our experiences entirely; not just for us, but for those around us as well.
This video is from a CBS News Assignment America story that aired yesterday about a good samaritan in our city, Reading PA, who also exemplifies how our attitudes and the choices we make can be a positive force for others, even if it starts with ice cream. My dear, childhood friend Beth was interviewed as well as Kyle's wife in this story.
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Lastly...
When Kyle passed away, he was in the process of putting together a 5K run that would raise money for the Sheriff's Dept. Honor Guard that honors fallen officers. He had arranged for a 21-gun salute at the 5K, to underscore the importance of these officers. A shining example of how Kyle was always thinking of others and ways that he could do something to serve them.
What a bit of cruel irony that Pags became one of those fallen officers himself...
A few sheriffs, Kyle's wife and my husband got together to pick-up where Kyle left off and to see that his wishes for this run were fulfilled. It is now called the Kyle Pagerly 5K Run, and the 21-gun salute will go off tomorrow morning at 9am. We will have a heavy moment of silence prior to that as we remember Kyle and all that he represented. It will be a beautiful day, I"m sure - Kyle will be missed, but his spirit will be there without a doubt!
Now back to the sewing that I get to do....